Chemical Reaction
Have you ever thought about why we handle relationships and feelings the way we do? Why does it have to be so secret who we are attracted to? Why can't we just say "Hey, I can't help but notice I'm pretty attracted to you." and then if the other person doesn't feel the same they just say, very casually, "Oh, really? I'm totally flattered, but I don't feel that way about you. Thanks though!" What's the use of hurt feelings? People can't help
not being attracted the same way people can't help
being attracted. No one really knows what draws two people together, so why do we treat crushes as some sort of disease?
Then let's say the scenario is reversed. Person #1 tells Person #2 that they wouldn't mind being closer to them and Person #2 does indeed requite the feelings. Can it stay understated and not be overblown? "Hey, I can't help but notice I'm pretty attracted to you." Instead of saying: "OMG, REALLY? I'VE LOVED YOU SINCE THE DAY I MET YOU! I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU FEEL THE SAME!" *awkward*, can't they just reply "Yeah, I've noticed that too. Would you like to see if we can last as a steady relationship?" And maybe Person #1 doesn't want that, "Hmm, maybe not now, but I don't want to rule it out in the future." Sounds good, right? And if they are gung-ho about it, "Yeah, I think I'd like that."
Why do we make everything so complicated for ourselves? Sure, once you get into a relationship, it's a whole different ballgame, especially if you stop feeling as attracted to the SO as you were in the beginning. Heartbreaks at the end of a relationship can't be simplified, but I'm not so sure why the initial hook up can't be. No one should be scared of stating how they feel. It's completely natural, and instead of Person #2 getting all weirded out by Person #1's likeness for them, shouldn't they be flattered that someone besides their parents cares for them? Shouldn't it boost Person #2's ego, even if they don't reciprocate the feelings? If it could all be handled like it isn't anything unusual (because it's not), I can't help but feel that everything would be so much
easier.
I'm a firecracker!
| Your Aura is Red |
 You have a high level of emotion. This can mean passion, but it can also mean rage.Usually, you don't take these emotions out on others. You just use them as motivation - and it works!
The purpose of your life: embracing all the wonders of the life, lots of travels, and tons of adventures
Famous reds include: Madonna, Marilyn Monroe, Jennifer Lopez
Careers for you to try: Dancer, Boxer, Surgeon |
 | You scored as Cedric Diggory. If you went to Hogwart you would be the lucky girl fucking Cedric Diggory! Congratulations! Popular, good looking, and a hell of an athlete. All he had to do was look at you and you were on your bakck! MMMMM I bet that sex is golden!
too bad he dies...
o well, enjoy that fine peice of man while he lasts..
go ahead girl, go head get down...
Cedric Diggory | | 60% | Ron Weasley | | 55% | Harry Potter | | 45% | Draco Malfoy | | 35% | Percy Weasley | | 35% | Victor Krum | | 35% | Fred and George Weasley | | 20% | No one, your a prude | | 15% |
WHO ARE YOU SCREWING AT HOGWARTS??
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Your Seduction Style: Fantasy Lover
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You know that ideal love that each of us dreams of from childhood? That's you!
Not because you posess all of the ideal characteristics, but because you are a savvy shape shifter.
You have the uncanny ability to detect someone's particular fantasy... and make it you.
You inspire each person to be an idealist and passionate, and you make each moment memorable
Even a simple coffee date with you can be the most romantic moment of someone's life
By giving your date exactly what he or she desires, you quickly become the ideal lover.
Your abilities to make dreams come true is so strong, that you are often the love of many people's lives.
Your ex's (and even people you have simply met or been friends with) long to be yours.
No doubt you are the one others have dreamed of... your biggest challenge is finding *your* dream lover.
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other side of the world
Do you wanna know my problem? I believe people. I guess I’m kinda gullible. It’s like when I watch those infomercials late at night and I really believe that I’d be better off in life with a fruit and vegetable dicer, even though I’ve never once cut myself while chopping any sort of carrot or pineapple.
So when people tell me they’re going to do something for me, or that they couldn’t do something without me, I glow with pride. I don’t think that, maybe, they could be playing with me, or using my bursting pride to get something for themselves. I honestly believe that they value me and that they appreciate what I do for them.
Sometimes I believe people are my friends, when they just aren’t. Some people think I or my family can do something for them. They are opportunists and when they find out that we can’t help them in the way they want us to, they split. I’ll never know if that boy I had a crush on for over a year really thought I was beautiful or if he was just saying that to get closer to my family and our connections.
Someone recently promised me a lot. Some of it I knew was too good to be true, but the rest was plausible and I felt he really appreciated my advice and friendship and he was showing his appreciation. Maybe I was just stupid, but his were empty promises. He said he could do anything, and maybe that’s true, but what was in between the lines was that even though he could do anything, maybe he didn’t actually want to. I built up my trust in him, and now I realize that he was fake. It was all a lie to get me to help him.
I want to give people the benefit of the doubt. I don’t want to believe the bad in people. Why can’t we all just play with rainbows and butterflies? Why do I have to worry about feelings, hookups, betrayal and blow jobs?
I anticipate certain events in my life for weeks at a time. Multiple scenarios are constantly running through my head, so that by the time the situation finally rolls around, I’ve played so many perfect and terrible scenarios, basically nothing happens. That’s all that’s left. No big drama can occur if I’ve already mapped them out in my mind.
So, please, don’t promise me anything you’re not going to come through with. Don’t get my hopes up just to shatter them, even if you don’t mean to. All your empty promises are just a let down.
Word of the day:
dis·ap·point·ment Pronunciation[dis-uh-point-muhnt]
–noun 1. the act or fact of disappointing: All of his efforts only led to the disappointment of his supporters.
2. the state or feeling of being disappointed: Her disappointment was very great when she didn't get the job.
3. a person or thing that disappoints: The play was a disappointment.
-Me
2007
My new year started and I missed it. A fitting close to 2006, I think. My year had been going down-hill for sometime and that closed it beautifully.
Don’t get me wrong, I was sad to see 2006 go. I made so many incredible memories this year; my Sweet Sixteen, Lumos, Hairspray, Guess What, Homecoming, The Acting Bug’s one year anniversary, Mother’s Day (which was awesome, I must say), getting my Canon EOS 30D kick ass camera, and Crash winning best picture at the academy awards (okay, so I didn’t exactly make that happen, but still), just to name a few. But I was also excited to start a new year and kiss goodbye the old; wisdom teeth, fractured nose, sliced up thumb, West Wing, Everwood and Charmed series finales, heartache, habits, etc, etc. But I missed it. Haha. I missed my chance to say hello and goodbye.
Wow. The things that happened last year: I made so many new and overwhelmingly cool friends who I will always know and love and I kept some fabulous old friends, who I will treasure now and forever. Thank you for being a part of my 2006, and let me know if there are any amazing memories we shared I’ve left off my list. I want to include them all. My year was blessed for longer than it was cursed and that’s all I want to remember of the year past.
I’m looking forward to this year. Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix, Prophecy 2007 (?), My golden birthday, Deathly Hallows (?), and soooo much more. I want you to help me make this year the best year ever. Not a week is going to go by without some really big event happening and you’re invited, I promise. I love you all so deeply it’s not even funny. I have more good friends than anyone deserves and you make my life meaningful and fun.
On another note, I am now taking applications for my first kiss of 2007.
Word of the day:
bos·om [booz-uhm, boo-zuhm]
–noun 1. the breast of a human being.
2. the breasts of a woman.
3. the part of a garment that covers the breast.
4. the breast, conceived of as the center of feelings or emotions.
5. something likened to the human breast: the bosom of the earth.
6. a state of enclosing intimacy; warm closeness: the bosom of the family.
–adjective 7. of, pertaining to, or worn on or over the bosom.
8. intimate or confidential: a bosom friend.
–verb (used with object) 9. to take to the bosom; embrace; cherish.
10. to hide from view; conceal.
[Origin: bef. 1000; ME; OE bōs(u)m; c. D boesem, G Busen]
—Synonyms 4. heart, affection. 8. close, cherished, boon, dear.
Arabic: صَدْرُ المرأه، ثَدْيا المرأه
Chinese (Simplified): 乳房
Chinese (Traditional): 乳房
Czech: poprsí
Danish: barm; bryst
Dutch: boezem
Estonian: rinnapartii
Finnish: povi
French: poitrine
German: der Busen
Greek: στήθος
Hungarian: mell
Icelandic: (konu)brjóst
Indonesian: payudara
Italian: petto, seno
Japanese: 乳房
Korean: (여자의) 가슴
Latvian: krūtis
Lithuanian: krūtys
Norwegian: bryst
Polish: piersi
Portuguese (Brazil): seio
Portuguese (Portugal): peito
Romanian: piept
Russian: грудь
Slovak: poprsie
Slovenian: prsi
Spanish: pecho
Swedish: barm, bröst
Turkish: göğüs, meme
Swear to god: it's all on dictionary.com. and that word of the day is all John's fault..
You know you love me,
Savannah <3
